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Perils do Face Christians on the Internet The internet is an unparalleled source of information, tools, and recreation. We can pay our bills, do research for school papers, check the weather, buy plane tickets, look up an old friend, sell old baby clothes, send and receive mail, or book a hotel room all from the comfort and convenience of our own home. It is an invaluable resource which, if used properly, can be very beneficial and advantageous to us. With the world just a click of the mouse away, however, comes also access to every ungodly and destructive practice that the world has to offer. In spite of all of the positive things which the internet offers, it has perhaps done more to harm or destroy the lives of men, women, and children than it has accomplished good. In reality the internet itself is neither inherently good or bad, but, like many things, such as money, it may be used in a way that will be beneficial or destructive to the user. Unfortunately, many fail to recognize the dangers which the internet poses until it is too late. Some are aware of the potential dangers, but do not consider them a serious threat to their well-being. It is often the very ones with just such a mindset who fall into the traps that Satan has laid for them, never to recover. Brothers and sisters, there is a desperate need for us to be forewarned and aware of the grave situation surrounding the use of the internet, including its use among members of the church. There is no such thing as any person, whether young or old, male or female, Christian or nonchristian, being above the temptations that the internet presents. It is probably the case that some who are reading this do not see this topic to be of extreme significance. It might seem that the things stated herein are so obvious so as to hardly need discussion and explanation. Be assured, however, that there is such a need, and that daily we are losing Christian brothers and sisters, as well as children, to the online wiles of the devil. We simply cannot afford to be ignorant of Satan’s devices (2 Cor. 2:11), nor can we afford to let this terrible problem go untreated. The Internet -- a Uniquely Dangerous Threat Why is the internet so dangerous? There have always been innumerable ways, if one so desired, in which one could sin. Men and women have been inventors of every evil thing imaginable since long before computers or the World Wide Web were around (cf. Rom. 1:30). What then is so special about the internet? Let me suggest that the following factors make the internet so dangerous to Christians today, as well as to our children. First, the internet is so accessible, convenient, and easy to use. There is no need to make the drive to Biloxi when one can gamble in the computer room. Not only is the internet so accessible, but it is often accessed in a private setting. Some who would never dare to be seen in a casino or at the dog track could much more easily place bets online without ever leaving the room. Some who would never venture into an "adult" bookstore might be much more likely to pursue their lusts at home in private. Accessibility and privacy are two of the greatest factors in making the internet such a danger. Second, much of what is available on the internet is offered free of charge. It is much easier to become involved in sin when it does not cost me anything financially. Third, the internet is so dangerous because it is addictive. In addition to online pornography and gambling being addictive, just using the internet itself can become an addiction. We grow accustomed to spending hours a day shopping online, playing games online, or just surfing the net, to the point that we feel that we cannot go without it. When Paul said "I will not be brought under the power of any," he actually had reference not to things which are morally sinful, but to things which are neither inherently good or evil but which we allow to dominate the choices we make (1 Cor. 6:12). There is not only the need to warn against online pornography, betting, etc., but to warn against becoming too attached to the internet period. Fourth, the internet is so dangerous, especially to Christians, because it can be very deceptive. Internet users need to be aware of this. E-mails from unknown senders with subject headings offering free quotes on life insurance have been known to provide links to "adult" websites. How many of us have tried to close out a pop-up advertisement only to be taken somewhere we did not want to be? Innocent engine searches can lead to harmful results. Take this into account especially as it relates to dangers which threaten our children. Fifth, the internet can promote laziness. This might not be the first thing that comes to mind when discussing perils of the internet, but there needs to be serious consideration on the Christian’s part concerning this matter. Advances in science and technology have done immeasurable good--we live more comfortable and healthy lives than ever before. Comfort and convenience, however, are usually accompanied by apathy toward spiritual matters as well as general laziness. Let us use the internet and all other such tools for our own benefit, and for the good of the church, but let us be careful that we do not allow the ease and convenience of modern technology keep us from being diligent in our service to God and man. Sixth, the internet is a unique threat in that it offers every possible sin and vice in which we can be involved. Satan is crafty and smart; he knows what is effective in alluring us to sin, and how to go about accomplishing his task. So, if he cannot entice me with online gambling, then he will try to gain a hold of me with pornography. If for some people pornography is not a temptation, then Satan will try to seduce them through explicit chat rooms and personal ads. If this does not work, then there is always the possibility of addiction to material things and wasted stewardship--of both time and money. What is a weakness for you is not necessarily a weakness for me. Things that I struggle with may not be a problem for you. But whatever your greatest weaknesses and temptations are, you can be assured that they will be targeted somewhere on the internet. For this and the other reasons offered, the internet is perhaps without peer among Satan’s weapons used to destroy souls. Specific Perils which Face us on the Internet There are some specific perils which we must consider. The following have done much to destroy the lives of Christian men and women, to ruin families, and to cost people their souls. Pornography--in discussing perils facing Christians on the internet, pornography is always the first thing that comes to mind. Webster defines pornography as "the depiction of erotic behavior as in pictures or writing intended to cause sexual excitement." Pornography is clearly a violation of every principle of decency and godliness (cf. Matt. 5:28; Prov. 6:25; 1 Tim. 2:9; etc.). It is not only sinful, but extremely destructive--spiritually, physically, and emotionally. This is conceded by all, and, unfortunately, known from personal experience for many of us. However, what is generally not conceded is that pornography, "the depiction of erotic behavior intended to cause sexual excitement," includes much more than what is generally labeled as pornographic. Swimsuit models on sports pages, or ads containing other provocative pictures of indecently dressed women found on just about every kind of website, are generally considered to be less offensive and dangerous than other pornography; but they are dangerous nonetheless. In fact, it is just this sort of thing which, if we allow ourselves to go along with, will eventually lead to more and more provocative material until there is no limit to what we will view. We need to avoid not only "adult" websites, but any sites where crude and unsavory material is present. Our tolerance of these things will only lead to more intense and destructive practices. Gambling--What is the big deal about internet gambling? If for no other reason, a Christian cannot be involved in internet gambling because it ruins one’s reputation and influence. It is not possible to provide things honest in the sight of all men and be an internet gambler (Rom. 12:17; 2 Cor. 8:21). It is conceded even by the nonreligious that gambling in general is addictive and destructive, harmful both to the individual and to society; it certainly has no place in the life of a servant of God (cf. 1 Pet. 2:12; 3:16; Tit. 2:8). Internet gambling in particular poses such a great threat because it often appears to be so innocent and minor in comparison to other forms of gambling; but, as is the case with all sin, the "small" leads to "worse" and "bigger" things. What starts out as some innocent fun with online betting games easily leads to addiction, waste, and ruin. With a hateful adversary ever on the prowl (1 Pet. 5:8-9), there is no room in a Christian’s life for any practice that might cause us to drop our guard. Chat rooms, dating agencies, personal ads, etc.--These often have been the subjects of humor, but there is nothing funny about the lives that have been destroyed and hearts broken from online relationships. Some people are so desperate for companionship, whether of a friend or a mate, that they will compromise their integrity, ignore common sense, and risk their reputation to find it. We have all known of cases of abduction, rape, or murder which stemmed from two strangers "meeting" in a chat room or through an online dating agency. This ought to be enough to prevent a level-headed person from seeking the companionship of strangers through such services [unless the service is known to be trustworthy and every possible precaution is taken. There are some chat rooms and dating services that are overseen by members of the church and have helped Christians find good Christian mates--but even with those rooms and agencies extreme caution should be exercised]. But, in addition to the physical dangers that exist in online dating and chatting with strangers, many chat rooms and personal ads are major sources of sexually explicit practices and encouragers of marital infidelity. With that being the case, why should we not simply avoid that temptation by staying away from chat rooms, online dating, etc.? "Can a man take fire in his bosom, and his clothes not be burned (Prov. 6:27)?" Poor stewardship--Again, the internet provides many great benefits, but it can easily become far too time-consuming. We are to use our time wisely, as good stewards of that which God has given us (Eph. 5:15-16; 1 Cor. 4:2). Some Christians have time for the internet, but not for Bible study or prayer. Some Christians spend an hour or two every day on the computer (outside of work), but cannot find the time in the week to visit the sick or invite people to a Bible study. Time is a precious commodity; which is more deserving of our time--internet surfing or Christian growth and service? Escaping/Overcoming the Perils we Face on the Internet We are aware of the dangers that use of the internet might present, but what are we to do about it? Besides the option of simply discontinuing use of the internet altogether, here are suggestions. First, be ever mindful of the dangers present. Do not dismiss them as minor or think that you are above their temptations (1 Cor. 10:12). Second, avoid the first step. Destructive, consuming behavior starts with the small first step. Avoid even the mere suggestion of gambling, indecency, etc. Avoid lasciviousness and covetous practices, yes, but also "such like" (Gal. 5:19-21). It is much easier to avoid taking the first step than to stop the progression of sin. Third, have an "open door" policy. Situate your computer in a conspicuous, open area where the temptation to sneak a look at things inappropriate will be far less. Some businesses require employees’ computers to be facing the door to their office and the door to remain open--this is a wise policy for all of us to adopt. Fourth, utilize tools and programs that refuse and guard against "adult" content, including pornography, gambling, and graphic violent and drug-related materials. There are many such tools available in the industry--use them. Fifth, fill your mind with God’s word, your time with his work, and your surroundings with good people. If I become so familiar with God’s word that "He that hasteth to be rich hath an evil eye (Prov. 28:22)" is the first thing that comes to my mind when gambling is suggested, then it will be much harder to place that bet. If "her feet go down to death; her steps take hold on hell (Prov. 5:5)" is branded in my memory, then I will first have to willingly push it from my mind before I can proceed to view pornography or join an explicit conversation in a chat room. If I am busy being about my Father’s business, I won’t have nearly the opportunities to fall into the traps of the internet as I otherwise would. If I surround myself with faithful children of God, the enjoyment and encouragement I receive from our association will discourage me from becoming involved in sinful and destructive behavior. Sixth, pray, "lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil (Matt. 6:13)." God provides the means to overcome temptation (1 Cor. 10:13); we must use them. Go on and pay your bills from your home, find a good deal on golf clubs online, check the weather in San Antonio for your upcoming vacation, e-mail your family members overseas, and find good Bible class materials to download. But, be aware of Satan’s devices. Protect yourself and your children, and put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil (Eph. 6:11-17). |
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